Q:hi:) ive been following ur posts about markus for a long time, and i was wondering what it was like when u first found out u were pregnant with him? how did ur boyfriend react and how did ur parents react? just wondering:)
Oh, wow. I was so shocked even though I knew the test was going to be positive. I sobbed for a good bit, then stopped &told myself that I would never cry over being pregnant again because it’s not a situation to cry over.
My boyfriend &I weren’t officially back together at the time (looong story), so I was scared that he would freak out but he was super calm. Said he didn’t mind it happening, that he had a feeling the night it happened that we were going to end up pregnant. I was really surprised at how supportive he was already.
My mother didn’t bring it up for like a week after I told her, then when she finally started talking about it she was nothing but supportive. She has never said anything negative to me about it, &I think that’s because she wasn’t much older than I am when she got pregnant with me in a similar situation, &my grandmother freaked out on her. My mother &I get along better now than we ever have.
My father, who Markus shares a middle name with, passed away when I was younger so I didn’t have to worry about him. My stepfather still doesn’t know because until boyfriend &I find a place I’m still living at home, &if he were to find out he’d kick me out. I really don’t get how he hasn’t noticed, though.